By Todd Levin
with my racist aunt wasn't all it was cracked up to be. There were difficulties,
to be sure. For one, her clumsiness threatened to jeopardize her own safety, and
the safety of anyone in her immediate vicinity, with startling regularity. My
racist aunt suffered from a lack of physical coordination unprecedented in our
family and, in the opinion of more than one accredited specialist, unprecedented
in the history of medicine. In fact, there was a time when medical professionals
would crowd my racist aunt's doorstep, clamoring to examine her cursed eyes and
inner ears. They poked and prodded and triggered quick bursts of compressed air,
hoping to etch their way into The New England Journal of Medicine or some
other such well-respected record of rare physiological phenomena.
all tests proved inconclusive, which pointed to the diagnosis our family had already
made long ago without the benefit of medical degrees: that my racist aunt's particular
brand of compromised physical coordination was less likely a product of ocular
or neurological disorder than plain old, garden-variety goofiness. One orthopedic
surgeon, a Dr. Evan Kraus, offered the following diagnosis to my uncle:
wife's body is -- how can I put this? -- her body is constructed like a ramshackle
uncle narrowed his eyes, and my father, sensitive to these very subtle expressions
of crisis, moved closer to his brother. Dr. Kraus continued.
see, it -- and by "it" I mean, of course, a poorly constructed home
or, in this case, your wife's body -- exhibits no signs of symmetry whatsoever
and not one single correct angle -- and therefore has no discernible center of
gravity for balance and support. It's really quite remarkable."
father placed a hand on my uncle's shoulder. This was a move I'd seen before,
and knew it served two purposes. It was both a gesture of consolation and a subtle
attempt to pin my uncle to his chair, to restrain him from attacking Dr. Kraus.
Dr. Kraus' suggestion was no less accurate than any of the others we'd received
from previous doctors, if a bit tactless. In my racist aunt, the relationship
between gravitational pull and body was a tenuous one, sliding back and forth
constantly, following its own secret schedule.
trapped in this condemnable structure, my racist aunt continued to move about
in a patternless teeter, clutching chairs and the arms of couches as she went,
all the while blinking and squinting her comically magnified eyeballs from behind
a pair of owl-sized spectacles. The lenses of her glasses were so thick the average
person could slip them on and see atoms smashing on the surface of objects, providing
the intense prescription did not induce a seizure or messianic visions first.
glasses like those, my racist aunt should have been able to see
danger afoot as soon as she stepped into a room -- with those glasses
she should have been able to see through walls, detecting movement
before she entered a room -- but even the twin Hubbell Telescopes
strapped to her round face did nothing to prevent her from stumbling
head-first into buffet tables and filing cabinets. She also bumped
into swiftly moving targets, like other human beings.
when there were no objects to knock over or no humans to bruise, my racist aunt
steadfastly refused to abandon hope. She would merely drop to the ground, from
a standing (or, on a few occasions, seated) position. These episodes were unpredictable
yet frequent enough to elicit a stern warning from her job supervisor.
must stop falling down," he said. "It's a danger to yourself, a distraction
to your co-workers, and an insurance risk to this entire company. You have been
warned. There. I've warned you."
many times can one fall down at work before it becomes an occupational hazard?
Six? Seven? Twenty? Consider this: whatever that number, my racist aunt surpassed
it, and by a quantity impressive enough to shift attention from genuine human
concern to double-secret probation. My racist aunt probably fell down more than
any other stenographer in the history of New York State's Office of the Comptroller.
One year, for her office's Secret Santa party, she received a seat belt.
my racist aunt wasn't getting strapped into an office chair for her own physical
health, she was practicing the exquisite art of saying the first, and worst, thing
that slid across her mind on any occasion. She felt not entirely uncomfortable
settling her low heft into a lawn chair in the middle of a family reunion and,
with a plate of barbecued ribs on her lap, and a quick adjustment of her portable
telescopes, announcing, "Wow, I barely recognize anyone. You've all gotten
so fat!" Before anyone had a chance to react with anything but stunned silence,
my racist aunt would fix the party with a grin and then resume absent-mindedly
shoving pork ribs into her great, toxic mouth.
short on laughs or malice, my racist aunt would weigh in giddily on any variety
of subjects for or about her collected audience. On the subject of a cousin who
just left the room: "I really thought Rachel was nice today. I can't think
of anything I hate about her now, except her haircut." On her own, humbling
battle with obesity: "I guess it's too late for me. I'm too fat now, just
like my daughter." On my brother, who turned a slightly troubled adolescence
around very nicely, and his new job as a Probation Officer: "How many people
have you shot?" On the terrorist "situation" and the growing domestic
suspicion of Arab-Americans: "I'm not racist; I just prefer whites."
that each of these well-aimed daggers was sheathed in pink chiffon giggles. Her
ability to burst into ridiculous laughter immediately after dropping a verbal
bomb had a disarming effect and, conscious or not, it was probably the only thing
that kept us from having her medicated or deprogrammed. Her disgraceful behavior
meant she had to be confined to her home, for her mouth drew no social boundaries.
Public outings were exhausting, and usually required detailed explanations as
my racist aunt ricocheted from location to location, offending every makeup counter
sales representative, grocery bagger, and traffic cop she encountered.
we ever lost her in a department store, we could follow the trail
of dropped jaws and frozen stares that we knew would lead to my
racist aunt. After making a procession of formal apologies -- "she
hasn't been herself these days" -- or slightly more informal
ones -- a slowly spinning finger pointing to one's own head or a
quick booze-tipping pantomime would suffice -- we'd inevitably find
her. Typically, she was explaining to a salesperson the advantages
of being African-American. "You must love being colored,"
she'd insist. "Your afros dry so quickly, you don't even have
to spend money on things like rain caps or umbrellas. You must save
so much money -- it's hard to believe so many coloreds are still
on welfare." Then my racist aunt would smile sweetly and wobble
off to her next victim, making sure to lose her footing once or
twice along the way.
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