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It was an all-encompassing worship that I would never quite feel again for another human being, no matter how sexy or dark or dangerous they were. I would not feel it for Leif Garret, Cat Stevens or even my ex-husband. My love for them was never like my first love. For that was a brand new heart-unbroken, clean, untouched by disappointment, regret or knowledge love. And it was filled with Davy-ness.
I didn't care that he was short. It would be years before I would sprout up to my full-grown height of 5'10", so height was not an immediate issue. We could deal with that problem later. After all, if he could love with me with my slightly crossed eyes, glasses, braces, Olive Oyl bod, headgear and all, then he wouldn't mind if I towered over him too.
What I loved about him was EVERYTHING. He was perfection. With his little boy charm. His choppy Prince Valiant hair. His crooked smile. And the clincher: the way his brown eyes would sparkle a wild starry blue whenever he fell in love each week with some unworthy actress who was just lucky to be on the show. I would put my own face onto theirs, keeping their curvy-bod and boobs (as I myself had nothing but bee stings) and bask in Davy's love glow as he sang "I'm a Believer" into my adoring eyes, which were of course, at that moment, uncrossed and conveniently free from their coke-bottle cages.
As I sifted through the tangled-web-memories that made up my life, I could pinpoint my 9th year as the one that got me used to longing for things that didn't really exist. An exciting, sexy world where you could be on TV, and older boys could love you and sing you a song that would confirm to every doubter in your school that you're special. IT. THE ONE. NOT a geek. Like Marcy Stein, who, by the way, had taken the bait and claimed Mickey Dolenz as her favorite Monkee. He was the man she would marry that afternoon in a backyard ceremony, where the four unsuspecting Monkees would become forever bound to four pre-pubescent girls from Manor Haven Long Island Elementary School, 'til death do they part.
I made my move slowly, pretending to protest. "But Marcy, you married Mickey last time. Which ended, need I remind you, in a bitter divorce when you left him for Bobby Sherman."
Marcy held fast. After all, it was her house, and her stove, on which we girls were now stirring a pot of strawberry Jell-O, to serve as the main course wedding feast.
"Mickey and I have a history together. YOU'LL have to take Davy."
My heart soared. I hesitated. Pretended to give in.
"O.K., but only if I get the lace tablecloth veil this time, and you take the smelly crochet afghan."
Marcy, who in later life would choose the wrong career and become a lawyer based on the mistaken idea that she was a good negotiator, accepted, and a pinkie-deal was struck.
"Yes!!" I thought. The day, which started out badly with a smashed cream cheese and jelly sandwich and a nothing part in the school play, was going to turn out all right after all!
is fattening," offered Cara Batista, whose obsession with her ever-expanding
waistline had rendered her unable to think of much else. "Peter likes
"Cara, put the Jell-O in the fridge!" Marcy shrieked. "Don't drink another spoonful or there'll be nothing left!"
Cara, her lips stained a guilty red, pouted, "But...... I'm tasting it for poison!"
"Oh, who'd poison the Monkees?" snapped Marcy.
"Bobby Sherman?" I offered, proud of the comeback, which brought the double reference of professional jealousy and Marcy's recent divorce betrayal in one cutting swoop.
Marcy was stumped for a witty reply, which was often the case, for she was the baby of us four. Poor Marcy was a pale pink speckled thing, with a beak-like nose that would be bobbed off for her sweet sixteen, but would still not render her face a pleasant one. Hers would be a life of bad dates and long litigations, but for right now it was HER house and SHE was the boss. This gave her the authority to shriek in a fish-wife manner whenever she felt the situation was getting away from her, and now was definitely one of those times, so she let out a deafening, "IT'S TIME TO GET DRESSED!! LET'S GO INTO MY PARENTS' ROOM, AND REMEMBER -- NO TOUCHING!"
We four friends ran down the lime green hallway into the forbidden zone: the Stein's marital sanctuary. The bedroom was a bright pink and purple affair, with a shag carpet so thick, once an object was dropped into its greedy tentacles, it was a safe bet it would never be seen again. I clutched my gold charm bracelet, the one with the four Monkees' heads, dangling like victims of the French guillotine, and fingered Davy's face protectively. I'd saved four months worth of weekly allowances for this priceless jewel and was taking no chances. I plopped myself down on the festive flowered bedspread and waited for more of Marcy's bossy instructions.
"You get the lace veil as per our previous verbal agreement," Marcy intoned, imitating her dad's lawyer-speak. "I get the afghan, Cara, you get the Pucci scarf and Amy, the doily will have to do."
our fate calmly, and solemnly draped ourselves in the flowing material.
Our manner grew more reverent as the actual ceremony drew near, little
pulses quickened as we began the transformation from ordinary "fiancées"
to "blushing brides".
regally, we trooped into the bathroom for the finishing touches. No Bonnie
Bell kid make-up for us girls, we were after the real stuff -- Mary Quant
wet-look-lip-slickers, Maybelline midnight-blue mascara, and gobs of extra-hold
Aqua Net hair spray. Our technique was not to enhance the natural beauty
that might be lurking somewhere just below the surface, but to paint it
on thick and pasty, like a magician's assistant, just in case it wasn't.
Amy looked in the mirror and shook her head vigorously, hoping the spotty,
sad-eyed face gazing back at her was really not her reflection and therefore
wouldn't shake back. It did. She sighed and applied some more peach blush.
Marcy squinted her tiny eyes at the blur in the mirror and hoped for the
best. With her glasses off, she couldn't really tell if she was beautiful
or not, so she pragmatically decided she was. Cara, on the other hand,
was thinking Cat Woman, and had given herself a new black beauty mark,
thick black cat-rimmed eyes, and a full red mouth. She smiled at herself
suggestively, turning proudly to me, then drew in her breath, slightly
startled as she eyed my reflection with a newfound suspicion.
Three heads turned to me accusingly. Confused, I checked out my reflection, bending in closer to see myself as I, too, had taken off my thick tortoise-shell specs, and could hardly see. Having had a beautiful blonde sister who was three years older than I, who'd shown me the real way to apply makeup, had inadvertently stirred up something that had been heretofore invisible to the naked eye. Sure, I was a walking cliché, which many a boy had cruelly reminded me of, lest it slip my ever-occupied mind. I was tall, painfully thin, had glasses, braces, freckles and long, dangling arms that brought to mind one word -- orangutan. But luckily for me a strange new realization was beginning to take hold in my slightly expanding consciousness; I just might be another cliché -- the ugly duckling turned, well, if not swan, then at least regular duckling. I felt a slight flutter in my heart as a tinge of excitement shot through my skinny limbs -- maybe I was going to be 'okay' looking after all! It was this very thought, this hope, that caused my entire universe as I knew it to warp. I could sense at that exact moment a whole new dimension of possibilities open up to me like the promise of a big unopened present, beautifully wrapped.
"Here come the brides!" I sang out with my newfound zest for life.
I was only slightly aware of the effect this had on Marcy, for it was another thinly-veiled Bobby Sherman reference, as he was on a hit TV show with the exact same name. Marcy chose to ignore the affront and ran after us girls, who had all forgotten the queenly manor in which brides were supposed to conduct themselves, and were now heading helter-skelter, limbs and hair a-flyin' into Marcy's postage stamp sized yard.
We gathered haphazardly under the gold cherub fountain, which towered proudly over the manicured lawn that seemed to cower under this suburban rococo monstrosity, submissive and afraid. To us, who were still childishly attracted to all that glitters, it was the most beautiful fountain we had ever seen. It was precisely why Marcy was chosen time and time again to host the backyard nuptials, as it afforded the perfect setting for a wedding between four imaginary pop stars and their underage brides.
"Let's practice kissing first," Cara suggested.
she had a slight edge up on these things, as she was already starting
to sprout one tiny bump that would soon grow into a full-fledged breast.
Unfortunately, the other one would be slow to follow, which would cause
many hours of worry on her part, and many yards of Kleenex, stuffed in
her one cup to even them out, until the other one caught up. Cara was
born on the verge of puberty. Even as a baby she was dark and musty. Her
upper lip was tinged with a slight mustache and her eyebrow was just that
-- one, not two. She'd begun to carry herself a little differently than
the others, since her recent discovery of her dad's stash of Playboy
magazines under the rec room couch. Within the next year, way before the
other late-bloomers, she would start her rigorous run around the bases,
offering her one breast up to anyone who'd show the slightest interest.
Cara had a lotta livin' to do, and right now, kissing practice was her
number one priority.
"You guys! Save something for the honeymoon!" she whined, more out of boredom than a sense of morality. "Marcy, you may start the ceremony."
Marcy, who had elected herself rabbi and had already directed the conversion of the Monkees to Judaism at a prior play date where they were fed bagels and taught to say "Oy!", was determined to make this a proper Jewish wedding. So she insisted on placing four Frisbees on the imaginary groom's heads for yarmulkes. Pausing for effect, she lifted the arm of her official Monkees record player, and the haunting strains of "I'm a Believer" filled the air.
We lined up, breathless with anticipation. As I covered my face with the makeshift veil, I began to feel a strange tingle through a part of my body I'd never really felt before. Somewhere dark and deep and secret; the first tickle of sex beginning to stir. As I bride-walked slowly down to the fountain, step-together-step, I could hear Marcy's voice echoing in the distance, as if in a languid dream.
"Do you, Hilary Shapiro, take Davy Jones to be your awful wedded husband, 'til death do you part?"
"I do," I answered, and it resonated from that same secret place inside me, so special and sacred.
"I now pronounce you men with wives."
"Mrs. Davy Jones, I am Mrs. Davy Jones. Hilary Shapiro Jones." The words filled my head like a magic spell.
"You may now kiss the bride." And I saw my husband lifting my veil, slowly, seductively as I offered my eager face upwards, his sapphire eyes twinkling like jewels, and he was kissing me, my one true love his hot sweet breath all over my face, and all my love-lust burned through my tiny chest, searing me with such intensity, it marked me for life. It would be a long time before a man would make me that blissfully, unconditionally and unequivocally happy.
Any hapless observer who might have glanced into the Steins' tiny piece of backyard heaven would have witnessed a strange sight indeed. For there we were, four girls with our heads tilted up towards the sun, our tiny lips moving sensuously as we kissed the air and basked in the warm glow of imaginary love, our hearts so full of the hope that one can only feel when you're that young and that untouched and that open.
In later years, there would be crushing betrayals, ugly divorces and broken hearts. But then, it was 1968, we were nine years old, miracles occurred on a daily basis, love was a beautiful thing, and anything could happen if you were a believer.
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